What is Instructionism? (A Deschooling Parenthood course preview)

As I mentioned in a previous post, my new course, Deschooling Parenthood, is starting soon. I wanted to give you a preview of some of the lessons from the course. We’ll start with the question of Instructionism today. Instructionism is the belief that learning is always and only the product of teaching. Watch this space for more previews in the next week!

  • In this section of the course, I want to talk in depth about a concept that call instructionism. I have also heard this called “the instruction assumption” but I like the term instructionism better, it implies something almost like a religion.

    So what is instructionism? The basic story of learning that is sold by schools and bought by politicians, media, and implicitly, by most Americans, is that learning is the product of teaching. Let me say that again. Instructionism is the belief that learning is the product of teaching. Specifically, it’s the belief that learning is the product of carefully planned and sequenced, formalized instruction, taught by a trained expert. Good learning is the product of good teaching, which of course means that if learning isn't happening, the solution is better teaching.

    This is a lie. Learning is a product of doing, thinking, reflecting, discussing, playing, experimenting, observing, imagining, practicing, resting, and most of all, of giving attention to what we find curious and interesting.

    In my experience, most teachers know this at least intuitively. At a minimum, they know that learning only happens when you're paying attention. And attention only happens easily if you're interested. You can force yourself to pay attention to something boring for a period of time, but it’s exhausting and unpleasant. This is why good teachers try hard to make their lessons interesting and to give students plenty of opportunities for at least some active engagement.

    But schools and school structures are still deeply mired in the belief that learning is a direct consequence of the quality, and especially, the quantity of teaching. It's hard to imagine a school that tries to solve a problem by saying, why don't we teach less and give the children more time to work things out for themselves? The suggestion that maybe we should do less is sacrilegious to instructionism. In my experience, actually doing so will get one labeled as neglectful.

    But in the next few lessons, I'm going to explain why less instruction, less interference is precisely what most children need.

    And I want be clear, teaching by itself is not inherently a bad thing. It has its place. It can be very useful, it can be very efficient, but we can’t see it as the only mechanism for learning or as the only tool in our toolbox for supporting learning and influencing children. So let's get started.

Once you start looking for it, you begin to see instructionism everywhere: in the media, in conversations about parenting, in marketing. In the comments, share your observations about where you see instructionism. Does it seem to be serving a positive purpose, or is it simply the default assumption.

Ready to find out more about the many ways children learn? Join us in Deschooling Parenthood, starting July 6!

A Montessori Home is Not a Montessori Classroom

A Montessori Home is Not a Montessori Classroom

Particularly since COVID, I've noticed many people attempting to implement Montessori at home. While this is wonderful, I've also noticed that many people are frustrated with how their children respond. They invest money and effort in creating beautiful materials for their shelves, only to become frustrated when their children don't want to work with them, or don’t develop that magical concentration and calm that Dr. Montessori describes. I often see people asking how they can support independent play in their young children, but I believe this reflects a misunderstanding about Montessori.

Do You Fear Joy?

Do You Fear Joy?

Recently, I was in a class with my middle school Montessori students. It was one of the last classes of the year, and we had finished our main “content” for the year, so we were working on crocheting a coral reef model. This actually does make use some very interesting mathematical ideas, and I’d given them a quick lesson on the math involved, but once we finished that, we just chatted and crocheted. The conversation was delightful, and went all over the place; we talked about Minecraft, the shape of the universe, General Relativity, their plans for the summer, my kids, a bit of everything.

College Without Grades, Part 1: Getting In

A question came up in one of my parenting Facebook groups online. This person wanted examples of young people who'd gone to Montessori school through middle or high school. She wanted to know how they did in college, without having experience with tests. That's where it started, but the conversation moved to the question of going to college without having high school grades.

(To be honest, I have never met a Montessori high school or middle school that doesn't do testing and grades. They might not be taken as seriously as in a traditional school, but they're there. In fact, most Montessori high schools I know of follow an International Baccaleaureate program, so the curriculum is not only recognized, but highly respected by colleges. As a Montessorian who very much aligns with the world of unschooling and self-directed education, this strikes me ridiculously limiting and unnecessary, but I suppose it seems pretty normal to most people.)

In any event, while I didn't go to a Montessori high school, (it wasn’t an option at the time), after my Montessori years I went to a school where there were no required classes, no (major) tests, and no grades. Many of our classes did, in fact, have tests and homework, but they weren’t backed up by any threat of low grades or the like. They were just for learning and feedback.

I had no trouble getting into college. Neither did my classmates, at least the ones who wanted to go, which was most of them.

So I feel confident in saying, you don’t need grades to go to college!

This has been obvious to me for decades, but it’s a shocking idea for most people. So I wanted to talk about it both from the perspective of somebody who went to college, having never gotten a grade in my life, and as somebody who worked in a college admissions.

Let me say that again. You do not need grades to get into to college.

What colleges are looking for in applicants is evidence that you are able to handle the level of work in college, and that you will be an interesting addition to the college community. At our school, students demonstrated this with a narrative transcript that explained the classes and other significant activities they’d done. For me, Model United Nations was a big part of my life. Bird watching trips were a big part of my life. Mock trial was a big part of my life. I spent a year overseas, so that was a big part of my life. All of those went onto the transcript, along with “United States History” and “High School English” and other more typical classes. There was one exactly one situation where I needed a transcript with grades, which was for a scholarship application. To deal with that, my advisor (who'd known me for many years) and I sat down, and we made them up. No one ever questioned the grades we chose.

In addition, every student produced a portfolio of their work. Mine included photographs with explanations, essays, at least one newspaper clipping, some artwork, some samples of school work, and the like. Back then, it was bound together as a spiralbound book. The process is probably much easier now, since you could create a webpage or multimedia presentation, and you could include videos and so on.

To apply to college, we put the transcript and portfolio together with all the usual college application stuff—recommendations, application essays, SAT scores, and so on, and we sent that off to colleges. In my case, three of the four colleges I applied to accepted me. The one that didn’t was an extremely, extremely competitive liberal arts college, so I don't know if I'd have gotten in regardless of where I went to school.

So applying to college without grades is absolutely doable, if you’re serious about going to college and about doing the preparation to be ready for it. Honestly, I think not having grades is an advantage, because colleges have to look at you as an individual. They can't lump you into the mass of transcripts and test scores. Applying to college this way requires a lot of intentional thought. You have to think about who you are and how you want to present yourself. “How do I show who I am?”

Having worked on the admission side, and read lots and lots and lots of college admissions applications, I can tell you that truly interesting applications are few and far between. So many people work for years to look perfect on paper: excellent grades, good SAT scores, impressive transcripts, a polished essay. When you read these applications, the people behind the applications feel totally flat. (In fact, sometimes when you interview these people, you realize they actually are “flat”. They’ve been so busy building their resumes for college that they haven’t had a chance to live, and that’s really sad.) These applications are completely forgettable, and whether or not those students get in will basically boil down to student numbers and how cranky the admissions committee is feeling on that particular day.

But then there is the occasional application that just sings. It may not be the most polished application or the most impressive resume, but there is an interesting person behind the application. Those applications get passed around the office. Admissions counselors photocopy the good parts and hang them up by their desks. I clearly remember exactly one college admissions essay from my time reading applications: a “proof” that there are no good Wendesdays.

Is that enough to guarantee admission? No. The admission numbers still have to work out, and you still have to demonstrate that you’ll be an asset to the school (able to do the work, not an arrogant jerk, etc). But your application with be discussed, and that means you’ll be considered on your own merits.

To be fair, my college admissions experience consists of one college—a competitive but not out outrageously competitive liberal arts college. Grades and test scores were looked at, but they acted as a kind of basic screening. Are there any warning signs? But if there were no grades, we just made those judgements based on the information we had. Of course, bigger schools will lean more heavily on test scores and grades because they have to. There's a big difference between having 3,000 applicions to read and having 30,000 applications to read. In our case, we actually did read every single application all the way through. I don’t know if that’s true at huge universities.

That said, I know of exactly one school (25 years ago), that just flat out said, “We won’t consider your application without grades.” Homeschooling, in various forms, has become much more common since then, and schools are more prepared to handle unusual applications. (I just checked, and the school in question now has a webpage for home-schooled applicants, which says nothing about grades.)

So, you do not need grades to get into college. If you’re considering an alternative to traditional high school and what’s holding you back is worry about getting into college, do it! That fear is overblown, and you can make college happen.

(For more, check out the resources on Blake Boles’ webpage for his book Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School? Scroll down to “Chapter 2” for college admissions information.)

Introducing The Montessori Unschool: I want your feedback

Introducing The Montessori Unschool: I want your feedback

As many of you know, I’ve long dreamed about creating a school that incorporates Montessori as genuinely self-directed education. You can read my first manifesto of this vision here. For the past six months, I have been laying the foundation to make this dream a reality and open a program in Portland, OR. Today, I took a big step. I recorded a video introducing The Montessori Unschool!

Dream with me: What do you wish your school had been?

Dream with me: What do you wish your school had been?

Today, I invite you to dream along with me. Think back to your time in school, whether that’s decades back or back to this morning. What was it like for you? Was it joyful? Was it satisfying? Did you find it empowering?

Now, throw out everything you know about school and dream. Close your eyes. Imagine what you would have loved to spend your childhood and adolescent years doing.

Montessori Is Not Self-Directed Education, But It Could Be

Montessori Is Not Self-Directed Education, But It Could Be

The Alliance for Self-Directed Education defines 6 "optimizing conditions" for self-directed learning, the first of which is that children–children–are responsible for their own learning. Children decide what to learn. Children decide what sort of structure or help they need. And perhaps most importantly, children decide whether to do anything at all that "looks like" learning. (It doesn't mean that children do all of this without input or inspiration from adults, but it does mean children have the final call on their own learning.)

Math Teachers at Play: Playful Math Carnival #158

Math Teachers at Play: Playful Math Carnival #158

Welcome to the 158th edition of Math Teachers at Play, AKA The Playful Math Carnival. For my regular readers who are new to MTaP, you can find out more about it on Denise Gaskin’s website. It’s a monthly roundup of playful and educational math blogs (and whatnot), hosted by a different blogger each month. Check out Carnival #157 over on Math Mama Writes. Also check out our friends, the Carnival of Mathematics, for some more mathy, bloggy fun. The current edition, #207, over at Sam Hartburn’s blog, is particularly playful.

And for regular MTaP readers who are new to The Montessori Cosmos, welcome! I blog about Montessori, math, and deschooling (in or out of school). For a really good picture of my thinking, read my Montessori Unschool Manifesto here.

What Is Learning? Acquisition Versus Participation

What Is Learning? Acquisition Versus Participation

Educators (and parents) face a problem: our specialty-learning-is something we can’t directly witness. Instead, we have to rely on mental models-metaphors-to make sense of it (Pattison and Thomas 2016). The most common metaphor for learning in the modern, schooled world is acquisition: learning means individually acquiring a set of skills, concepts, and know-how, which one then “masters” or “owns”. This metaphor is so deeply engrained in rhetoric about school and learning that it’s hard to imagine their even could be a different metaphor for learning, but there is.

Why Give Children School Standards If They Are A Faux-Responsibility?

Why Give Children School Standards If They Are A Faux-Responsibility?

Last week, I wrote about the idea of "faux-responsibility," that is, specific obligations that benefit only the child's future, not their present community. And yet, I have precisely one item for sale in my store, and it is a set of child-friendly school standards. Amazingly, not a single person has asked me about this contradiction. I'm going to explain it anyway.

Freedom and Faux-Responsibility

Freedom and Faux-Responsibility

I've been thinking quite a lot lately about the concept of "Freedom and Responsibility". This phrase, or its variants "Freedom with Limits" and "Freedom, not License" have great valence within the Montessori community. We explain to curious, skeptical, or confused parents that children do not, in fact, have the freedom to do whatever they want. They have "freedom within limits". They can move freely around the room, provided they do so in a way that protects people and materials. They can talk freely, provided they are kind and keep their volume reasonable. They can use the material, provided that they are using it appropriately.

The "Learning Activity" Virus

The "Learning Activity" Virus

Adults are responsible for children’s learning. If you are a parent or teacher in the United States, take a moment and think about this claim. You may or may not agree with it, but I predict that you act as if you do. In fact, I think it is one of the founding notions of modern American* parenting. Consider some of these corollaries:

- Children learn because they are taught.

- And therefore, if we want children to learn, we must teach them.

- If children aren’t learning according to the schedule we set, there is something wrong with the child or the teacher.

- Children’s activities must be carefully curated to ensure they learn the right lessons from them.

- The most important learning happens in a classroom.